Stage 2 · Lesson 3 of 7
Testing a self-doubting thought
Once you have named a thought, test it like a scientist. Write the thought and how much you believe it, from 0 to 100. List the evidence for it and the evidence against it: real events, not feelings.
Ask what you would say to a friend who had this thought, and what someone who respects you would say. Then write a more balanced version and rate your belief again. "I am terrible at coding" might become "I struggle with recursion, and I solved the last two assignments after asking for help." The balanced thought is not cheerful; it is accurate.
Common trapskipping the evidence against, because self-doubt makes you forget it. That is why stage 4 has you keep an evidence file.
A question to check yourself and an AI practice session come when you add the roadmap to your account. Add it
Resources for this stage
Start with
- GuideFreeSelf-Compassion (Dr Kristin Neff)
Kristin Neff
Kristin Neff's free self-compassion exercises and the research behind them
Practise
- moodgymPaid
A free online CBT programme for working through unhelpful thoughts step by step
Short, research-based practices, including self-compassion and gratitude exercises
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