Stage 2 · Lesson 2 of 7

Thinking traps behind self-doubt

Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) describes predictable thinking traps that fuel self-doubt. Discounting the positive: "I passed, but it was an easy paper." Mind reading: "They think my question is stupid."

All-or-nothing: "If I am not the best, I am a failure." Labelling: "I am an idiot" after one mistake. Fortune telling: "I will mess up the presentation."

Comparison: "She is ahead of me, so I am behind." Naming the trap when it appears gives you a little distance from the thought. You are not trying to replace it with fake positivity, only to see it clearly.

Common trapbelieving a thought because it feels true. Feelings are real, but they are not evidence about your ability.

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Resources for this stage

Start with

GuideFree
Self-Compassion (Dr Kristin Neff)
Kristin Neff
Kristin Neff's free self-compassion exercises and the research behind them

Practise

moodgymPaid
A free online CBT programme for working through unhelpful thoughts step by step
Greater Good in Action (UC Berkeley)
Short, research-based practices, including self-compassion and gratitude exercises

Also worth your time

Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy (David D. Burns)ReadPaid
The classic CBT guide to thinking traps and how to answer them
The Confidence Gap (Russ Harris)Go deeperPaid
More on stepping back from thoughts and acting on your values

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