Stage 6 · Lesson 4 of 6

Teaching and helping others

Setbacks, rejection and keeping your confidence

One of the fastest ways to see your own ability is to help someone a little behind you. Explaining a concept to a junior, answering a question in a study group, or mentoring a first-year student shows you how much you know, and teaching also deepens your understanding.

It builds a different kind of confidence: not "I am the best", but "I have something useful to give". Look for small opportunities: a study session, a reply in a community forum, a short guide for juniors, volunteering at a club. Note what you helped with in your evidence file.

Common trapwaiting until you are an expert before helping anyone. Someone one or two years behind you will find your knowledge valuable now.

A question to check yourself and an AI practice session come when you add the roadmap to your account. Add it

Resources for this stage

Start with· follow one of these

VideoFree
What I Learned from 100 Days of Rejection (Jia Jiang, TEDxMtHood)
Jia Jiang (TEDxMtHood)
What 100 days of seeking rejection taught one person about fear and asking
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Why We All Need to Practice Emotional First Aid (Guy Winch, TEDxLinnaeusUniversity)
Guy Winch (TEDxLinnaeusUniversity)
Why rejection and failure hurt, and how to stop them shrinking your confidence

Practise

Meetup
Find local groups where you can practise speaking, helping and meeting new people

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