Stage 4 · Lesson 2 of 7

Habits take longer than 21 days

You may have heard it takes 21 days to form a habit. A study led by Phillippa Lally at University College London followed people building a new daily habit, such as eating fruit at lunch or a short run, and found it took about two months on average for the behaviour to feel automatic, with a very wide range from a few weeks to most of a year.

Simple habits formed faster than demanding ones. Missing a single day did not ruin the process. This is good news: if your habit still feels effortful after three weeks, you are not failing, you are in the middle.

Common trapgiving up at the point when it still feels hard, which is exactly when most habits are still forming.

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Notion
A simple habit tracker table you can see every day, and nothing more

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