Stage 4 · Lesson 6 of 7
Respond, do not suppress
Pushing feelings down tends to backfire. Research on emotion suppression suggests it does not reduce the feeling inside and can make it harder to think clearly and connect with others. Responding well usually means a pause, then a choice.
Name the feeling. Take a few slow breaths. Move your body: a short walk changes more than you expect.
Talk to someone you trust. Write it down. Then ask: is there something to do about this now, or is this a feeling to let pass?
Sometimes the right response is action, like sending a difficult message; sometimes it is rest.
Common trapthinking emotional control means not feeling anything. It means feeling it and still choosing what you do next.
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Resources for this stage
Start with· follow one of these
- VideoFreeWhy We All Need to Practice Emotional First Aid (Guy Winch, TEDxLinnaeusUniversity)
Guy Winch (TEDxLinnaeusUniversity)
Why we look after small emotional injuries less well than physical ones, in one talk
- GuideFreeNHS Every Mind Matters
NHS (England)
Free NHS self-help for stress, low mood and sleep, with a short personal plan
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