Stage 1 · Lesson 2 of 7
Respect, hierarchy and staying quiet
In many families, schools and workplaces, especially across South Asia, the Middle East and East Asia, young people are taught not to question elders, teachers or bosses. Researchers such as Geert Hofstede called this power distance: how far people accept that those with more power should not be challenged.
Respect is a good value. But in most modern teams, especially international ones, silence is often read as having nothing to say, and a polite question is expected and welcomed. You can keep respect and still speak: "May I ask a question about this?" works almost everywhere.
Common trapbelieving your only choices are silence or rudeness, when a respectful question sits in between.
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Resources for this stage
Start with· follow one of these
- VideoFreeThe Skill of Self Confidence (Dr. Ivan Joseph, TEDxRyersonU)
Dr. Ivan Joseph (TEDxRyersonU)
Confidence as a skill built through repetition, from a university sports coach
- BookPaidQuiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking (Susan Cain)
Susan Cain (Crown) · Paid book
Why quiet people bring real strengths, and how to contribute in your own way
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