Stage 1 · Lesson 6 of 7
Start with small repetitions
Confidence in speaking comes from doing it many times, starting small. A ladder helps: ask a shop assistant a question, then a classmate, then a teacher after class, then a question in class, then a comment in a meeting, then a short talk. Climb one step at a time and stay on a step until it feels ordinary.
Set a weekly target, such as speaking once in every meeting or class, and count it in a notebook. The count matters more than how good each attempt was.
Common trapjumping straight to the hardest situation, such as a big presentation, having a bad experience and deciding you are not a speaker.
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Resources for this stage
Start with· follow one of these
- VideoFreeThe Skill of Self Confidence (Dr. Ivan Joseph, TEDxRyersonU)
Dr. Ivan Joseph (TEDxRyersonU)
Confidence as a skill built through repetition, from a university sports coach
- BookPaidQuiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking (Susan Cain)
Susan Cain (Crown) · Paid book
Why quiet people bring real strengths, and how to contribute in your own way
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