Building your support system

Stage 4 · Lesson 5 of 6

Asking good questions

Finding and keeping mentors

Mentors give better help when you ask better questions. A good question shows what you already tried, gives enough context, and asks something specific: "I am choosing between a data science internship and a backend one. I enjoy both.

Which would leave more options open in two years, and why?" Before a meeting, write your questions in order of importance, and take notes during it. After, try what they suggested and tell them what happened. That last step is what turns one conversation into a relationship.

Common trapasking questions you could have answered with a quick search. It uses their time on things you could do yourself.

A question to check yourself and an AI practice session come when you add the roadmap to your account. Add it

Resources for this stage

Start with

  • PlatformFree
    Sefism 1:1 Mentorship

    Sefism

    Sefism's own one-to-one sessions with Tauseef for approved members

Practise

  • Free mentoring calls with working professionals in tech, design and product

  • Structured open source mentorship on real projects with experienced maintainers

Keep handy

Also worth your time

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