Building your support system

Stage 4 · Lesson 1 of 6

What a mentor is, and is not

Finding and keeping mentors

A mentor is someone with more experience who gives you perspective, advice and sometimes introductions. They are not a parent, a therapist, a job agency or a guaranteed referral. Good mentoring is usually light: an occasional conversation, a review of a plan, an honest answer to a question you could not ask anyone else.

Mentors are often older professionals, but a senior student two years ahead can be a great mentor too, because they remember exactly what your stage feels like.

Common traplooking for one perfect mentor who will guide your whole career. Few people have the time for that, and asking for it can push them away.

A question to check yourself and an AI practice session come when you add the roadmap to your account. Add it

Resources for this stage

Start with

  • PlatformFree
    Sefism 1:1 Mentorship

    Sefism

    Sefism's own one-to-one sessions with Tauseef for approved members

Practise

  • Free mentoring calls with working professionals in tech, design and product

  • Structured open source mentorship on real projects with experienced maintainers

Keep handy

Also worth your time

Struggling right now? If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, contact local emergency services or a crisis line: Find a helpline (any country), Umang (Pakistan), Tele-MANAS, 14416 (India).

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