Building your support system

Stage 4 · Lesson 2 of 6

Many small mentors

Finding and keeping mentors

Instead of one big mentor, build a small personal board: a senior student for course choices, a working engineer for career questions, a teacher for research, someone from your background who moved abroad, a peer who is a little ahead in the same skill.

Each gives you a different view, and none carries too much weight. Some will be one conversation; some will become long relationships. Books, talks and online creators can also mentor you at a distance, as long as you remember they do not know your situation.

Common traprelying on a single voice for every decision, especially an online voice that has never met you.

A question to check yourself and an AI practice session come when you add the roadmap to your account. Add it

Resources for this stage

Start with

  • PlatformFree
    Sefism 1:1 Mentorship

    Sefism

    Sefism's own one-to-one sessions with Tauseef for approved members

Practise

  • Free mentoring calls with working professionals in tech, design and product

  • Structured open source mentorship on real projects with experienced maintainers

Keep handy

Also worth your time

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