Building your support system

Stage 3 of 7 · 6 lessons · ~1 week

Peers who study and build with you

Some of your most important support will come from people at the same stage: classmates and fellow learners who study with you, build with you and keep you honest. This stage is about finding and keeping that circle.

Start: Study groups that actually work

Lessons· one lesson for each topic, in this order

  1. 1Study groups that actually work
  2. 2An accountability partner
  3. 3Build things together
  4. 4Peers online
  5. 5Peers, not competitors
  6. 6Choosing your circleOptional

Do this

  • Invite three classmates to a weekly study session
  • Ask one reliable person to be your accountability partner
  • Sign up for one hackathon, competition or group project
  • Join one online community and post an introduction
  • Congratulate one peer on a win and ask how they did it

Start with

Practise

  • Student hackathons, online and in person, to build with others in a weekend

  • Sefism's own community: find study partners and people at your stage

Keep handy

  • Share progress and find developers learning the same things

Also worth your time

Before moving on: A small study group or accountability partner meeting weekly, one group build or hackathon planned, and an active place in one online community where you have posted at least twice.

Tauseef's advice
Find two or three people going the same way and walk together. A weekly check-in or a shared project will do more for your motivation, and your career, than any number of solo late nights.

Struggling right now? If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, contact local emergency services or a crisis line: Find a helpline (any country), Umang (Pakistan), Tele-MANAS, 14416 (India).

Mark this stage as not done?